The Yoniverse pt 3

It is so fitting to be writing this post on Easter afternoon. Because the whole rebirth theme is so apropos for all of us these days and from my perspective, especially so for men. Being one myself, I have a unique vantage point and sincere personal investment in what's unfolding on the planet now. Because I’ve been an active participant for a while here, I’ve seen how those around me, (myself included), awakening for ourselves, have been touched and triggered by the Spiritual Juice flowing more strongly into our lives now. 

As is the case for all of us on Earth, it’s the Sacred Feminine Lifeforce that’s been leading the way in catalyzing proactive change thus far. This has been the incoming force of consciousness that (thank Goddess), began pulling the way way off to the extreme, pendulum swing of the misaligned masculine patriarchy, long set in domination and control, closer back to center.

These times, as a few goddess types I used to know so fervently believed, are not the ancient Goddess traditions the reawakening now to replace those long established but a precious, once in a Soul life opportunity to co-create a whole new doorway or level of consciousness for all of us both to walk through. Together - and this is the kicker here - only however, after establishing It first within ourselves.

This people, is called Sacred Union. To become completely whole in our Self, we’ll have to embrace the opposite sides of ourselves to make them completely complimentary once again. To come back into harmonious alignment with our essential nature, living in our Soul stream awareness, we individually and collectively have to reestablish our conscious connection with our Source Self, alive and well, living large in your Yoniverse inside of you.

How this works for men – we’re finally having to identify and get in touch with our feelings, hidden deep in our emotional bodies all the while, living in the cloaked guise of our inner feminine nature. Equally so (and so sneaky It is too!), women will do well to better get in touch with and more consciously engage your own inner masculine nature. Ha - who knew!? 

Quick raise of hands ladies – who out there can easily envision and comfortably identify your own inner masculine presence or awareness or consciousness or whatever - in a short paragraph or less. No, just kidding but a sentence or two will do. Who of you have a familiar sense of what I’m even saying here? It’s not so easy to do, is it? In this respect, how in touch are most women regarding your own masculinity, I have to wonder and how healthy is this primary relationship anyway? You see, we are all in this together.

I only say this because, from personal observation, there sure appear a lot of women who come across way over polarized in their masculine characteristics with resulting behaviors that aren’t especially evolved or conscious at that. Just sayin.’ Bottom line: The masculine mass consciousness archetype has to evolve is everyone!

All of us, women and men both, are being stripped down to our Core. We’re all having to sift through the energetic overlays we brought into this life as well as the old paradigm, emotional portfolios and mental belief systems we inherited from our parents, family, cultures and the like. Everyone has their own karmic closets to sort through, releasing all that is worn, outdated or just doesn’t fit. It’s a full time job – consciousness doesn’t have days off.

Every human is having our entire system totally rewired in ways no one has ever quite experienced before, certainly not on a mass a’planetary level. This is new info for everybody. Even though yes, women have been working at this longer and this does count for a lot and yet, new is new and however you slice it, we’re all having to show up now as if it all really counts. Cuz it duz.

Duh! Does anyone seriously think to get through these Turning of The Ages without having to heal all and every last little bit of repentful, resentful, sorrowful and sad (fill in the blank ……)          bit of yourself you still judge and hold out of your own Heart? Guess again. 

In the grand banquet hall where we’ll have to ultimately assemble all the different parts of our psyches, you can bet you’re gonna have to expand the guest list to include the less desirable characters in your personal repertory troupe. Believe me, not all of your crew looks let alone acts even remotely socially acceptable.

Hey y’all, it works both ways. No one is exempt from facing the parts of ourselves most difficult to like, let alone Love. This really is the master program in Earth School and why it’s called self-mastery, not self-feeling-pretty-good-about-myself-today. Whether many are called and few come running, in order for any of us to evolve now, we’re going to have to come into our Heartspaces and live compassionately in Self-acceptance, not criticize in self-judgment.

So many of the women who’ve written in since The Yoniverse first posted have expressed their observations of concern in how men have been so turned inside out and spun upside down, in fact, almost gutted, as a result of women reclaiming their power. Also, from their point of view - most men don’t have a frickin’ clue who we really are and how to naturally act as a ‘man’. This however, can’t be helped. Whenever a primary player changes course midstride, in such an all encompassing way, all participating have to change as well. For men, simply put,  this has been really confusing.

You’re right, most men don’t know how to be masculine in a conscious way.  The Sacred Feminine blew all the circuits for all of us. For most men, because the basic rules changed in the most fundamental of ways, this has been totally crazy-making and nearly impossible to make any sense of. Ooops guys - the entire planetary template has dramatically shifted and like a globe-size game of musical chairs, we’re all scrambling to find our new place.

And this is the good news, because breakthrough only comes after breakdown. Only by introducing the Sacred Feminine consciousness over the past many decades could the fucked up, old paradigm mentality hope to shift. Men certainly weren’t about to do anything significantly different unless blowing up the planet counts. And this might still happen if we’re not real careful.

Ironically enough, the woman I was recently involved with, no longer, shared a most Lovely email with me a week or so before she made her exit, saying – To change the world, Love a man. Of course, the same applies both ways … and this is the perfect segue to recognize the only way to change the world, is by changing your self first, ie. Mahatma Gandhi’s jewel: Be the change you want to see in the world.

The thing is, it works most effectively if you start within yourself. All the feelings of separation from Source anxiety we’ve all endlessly experienced, the root cause to all our suffering as Souls here on Earth, will shift and cease when we come to embrace to transform our pain body material as it arises. Eventually, it's hold on us goes away. In this respect, you can never defeat your enemy (your pain) by resisting, fighting or pushing it away – you gotta embrace it to heal it, don’t you know. (Again, the self-mastery clause of the Earth School curriculum.)

As anyone who speaks to this in their lives, let along writes of it and signs their name to the page will attest, the bar is raised considerably when you do step out like this. And yes, I do teach what I need to learn. In order to actually pull this off, you have to embody the Beloved in all certain terms. It is relentless folks and it would seem, picking up momentum. Personally speaking, this recent passage through my own emotional Shadowlands, relationship-wise, has brought up all the buried funky nuggets left hiding under the rocks, let me say. 

This again, has made completely clear the process and practice of becoming really present in my Heart is most valuable when I feel most unloved or rejected or confused or hurt – you name it, it all fits. In the vast Yoniverse, my open and empowered Heartspace is my only refuge. I believe this to be true for everyone and for men, an essential way to heal the deepest tears in our emotional bodies.

That this last dance should touch all too coarsely on my Soul deep longing for a Sacred Union partner, (I hadn’t even considered a Twin Flame one till she brought it up) by having it initially bantered casually about, then ignored if not disregarded, has been like getting taken in a classic game of bait and switch … now you see it, now you don’t. Ha – got ya Keith!

As always, there is no finger pointing to blame anyone here. We’re all free agents on this playing field responsible for our own actions, reactions and choices made. However, as with those who carry coyote medicine, you better keep a vigilant eye on the cards being moved around. The only one to account to when we pull a blank, is ourselves. In this case, myself.

And yet, the Design brought me exactly what I most needed to see. It hit me right in the cross hairs of my Heart. I still, up until now, looked outside to meet and complete the places I have yet to do within myself. To be sure, I’ve worked really long and hard on this one, however cleaver as Spirit is, It lined me up right behind the last vestige standing in my Spiritual relationship fantasy.

Having to snorkel and spelunk deep into the sediment of what remains has been truly humbling, on every possible level. Yet what a gift this is! You see, we all have to birth ourselves now into who we most choose to be. We were all created in the Divine Mother’s Yoniverse but only we can deliver ourselves to our higher calling for ourselves. As men, we have to find our own reasons for being alive now and consciously live in ways harmonious and supportive of this. 

The Awakened Sacred Masculine reestablishes our commitment to live from our open and empowered Hearts by living in respect, honor and integrity. How to say this straight up? We all have to claim ourselves Home. No one can do this for us. It can’t be given, found, inherited or bequeathed. Conversely so, no one can take it away from us either.

For men, we’re having to learn an entirely new language with completely different rules in very challenging circumstances often feeling really overwhelmed with awakening women who also project their own issues on us as we’re just trying to catch our fucking breath already … Whew, let’s give everybody a break now!

... to be continued …

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